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Crystals and Detoxification

We all know crystals aren’t just for looks.  Heck, we learned that way back when we were little kids and discovered that crystals were used in watchmaking and design.  Then as teenagers, we learned crystals were great amplifiers as they were used in the speakers in our boom boxes.

Going beyond those things, however, crystals have been used in healing for eons.  Many different spiritual paths utilize crystals in ritual and healing work.  Of course, crystal therapy is many times dismissed as pseudo-science, but if you’re regularly reading this blog, you’ll most likely find yourself dismissing (or embracing, hopefully) more than a post on crystals.

If you accept the possibility of using crystals as a healing modality, then keep reading!

I have long since loved using crystals…as a bona fide earth sign I have always been drawn to rocks and fossils.  One of my most prized possessions as a child was a cross section of a dinosaur bone.  I have always resonated with various stones and rocks, particularly those of volcanic origin, such as pumice and obsidian.

Being the rock enthusiast that I am, I immediately fell in TOTAL love with a shop here in Austin called “Nature’s Treasures” from the moment I crossed their threshold.  They have crystals, shells, gems, stones, and relics of all shapes and sizes.  They have a magnificent white crystal bench (that weighs more than my entire family combined, I am sure) for sale, that costs as much as a new car.

The shop is located right off a busy freeway, and you can barely hear yourself think outside of the business…but when you actually pass through the doors, it’s a whole other world!  It’s peaceful, quiet, calming and healing, in addition to being aesthetically pleasing to the eyes.  A sensitive person can feel the energetic vibrations of the various stones, with ease.  If a person is having a bad day, an easy way to immediately shift your vibrations would be to visit such a store!

I’ve had the wonderfully good fortune to have spent a LOT of time in this store, lately, with immediate plans to be there even more as an in-store reader, with dates scheduled throughout the rest of the year!  However, the last two times I was in there, I could not understand why I felt myself becoming flushed and damp with perspiration.

Actually, to be perfectly blunt, I was sweating like a dude.  

I would have chalked it up to hormones or even just plain ol’ excitement if it hadn’t happened both times.  And upon further inspection of my other “symptoms” I started to wonder if perhaps my body wasn’t simply responding to the powerful crystal energies by rapidly detoxing?

I’m a pretty healthy person, but Austin-area allergies have been the bane of my existence lately, and instead of being smart and going the homeopathic route, I have been opting for instant (albeit temporary) relief in the form of OTC allergy pills.  It’s true that these types of pills can be highly toxic to our bodies, if overused.  There have been a few other things I have done that haven’t been the healthiest of choices, lately – wheat consumption, poor water intake, zero to no organic vegetable juice –  that have left me feeling acidic and toxic.  Intuitively, I knew that these crystals were quite literally, kick-starting my body’s own detox process.  Unfortunately, that process was resulting in uncomfortable amounts of sweat!

I came home (dried off) and started searching online for articles on crystals and detoxing, and they are certainly out there!  It makes absolute sense that crystals and their amazing healing powers could detoxify, but I didn’t realize how fast and effective it could be.  Of course, the building that I was in was filled in every nook and cranny with crystals, and there is definitely strength in numbers!

Of course, this is also a good reason for a person to CLEANSE their own crystals regularly, even if you are not the kind of person who uses crystals for healing.  (If you so much as have them placed around your living quarters for decorative purposes, they are still absorbing and working with the energies of ALL the people/animals that come into your home!)

If you work with crystals or plan to start, you can experiment and come up with a way that works best for you with regard to cleansing (and charging) your crystals.  If you have no idea where to start, HERE  is a great article on how to cleanse your crystals.  Many people like to cleanse their crystals during particular phases of the moon, such as a new or full moon, but that is not necessary.  Interacting regularly with your crystals will attune them to your personal energies, and your intention to cleanse them when needed, will be well received by their vibrations.

If you are still unconvinced of the amazing power of crystals, simply search YouTube for videos of Singing Crystal Bowls.  Having played crystal bowls on several occasions, I can honestly vouch for how peaceful and grounded you will feel, afterward.  And it’s not just the gorgeous sound they produce, it’s also their effective healing abilities.

To sum up, crystals are beautiful medicine.


The Path of the Empath ~ Vol. 2

This is the second installment in a personal series I am writing about being an empath.  (Here is a link to my first post:  The Path of the Empath ~ Vol. 1.)  The term “empath” keeps cropping up more and more, and I believe that’s because there are many of us recognizing this trait within ourselves.

It is my hope that these posts will help those who have come to know that they are empaths, realize that they are NOT broken or damaged, but rather a very important group of people.  It is not unusual for empaths to feel alone or ostracized, so I also hope that these posts can help unite empaths, and inspire a sense of community and camaraderie.

To kick this second posting off properly, let’s define “empath”:
Via Wikipedia –
“An empath is a person who has an acute or highly developed sense of empathy. In the paranormal and in some works of science fiction and fantasy, highly developed empathy is a paranormal or psychic ability to sense the emotions of others. It is distinguished from telepathy, which allows one to perceive thoughts as well. Occasionally empaths are also able to project their own emotions, or to affect the emotions of others.”  

If you are curious as to whether or not YOU are an empath, here is an awesome test.  I have known for quite some time that I am an empath, but for fun, I took the test.  I scored 76 out of 80, which resulted in a “You are definitely an empath” distinction.

Fun online quizzes aside, being an empath isn’t always easy.  In fact, if you are not grounded spiritually, 100% of the time, it can be a slippery slope to walk.  An empath MUST learn how to set healthy boundaries and “guard their sensitivity.”

I obviously know this, but even so, I started getting a little careless a few months back.  As a Life Coach, it’s easy for me to “preach” to others about their spirituality, and setting boundaries, but it is sometimes hard to follow that advice myself.  I fell victim to countless “energy vampires“, thinking that I was helping them by somehow being available to them whenever they determined they needed me.  This wasn’t just happening to me, it was happening to my empathic husband, as well.  We started getting run down.  My husband,who has a chronic health condition, started becoming ill again.  I was growing depressed, and allowing any and all negative situations – including sad or upsetting news stories – deeply disturb me.  Our daughter, who is the epitome of a Crystal Child was being adversely effected, as well.  In just a few short months, our small family unit had begun to completely fall apart.

Without going into too much detail, I will admit that I believe I experienced a complete nervous breakdown.  This was mid-January of this year.  In all truthfulness, it took until about mid-March for me to start feeling “normal” (whatever that is) again.  Actually, I didn’t just start to feel normal…I started to feel HAPPY!  100% happy!  A happy like I had not known in quite some time.  A beautiful, foreign feeling, to say the least!  And had it not been for that breakdown, I might have never been put in a situation where I was FORCED to receive help.

That’s right.  Professional help.  And I’m not ashamed to say that.  Five weeks in an Intensive Outpatient Program and ongoing counseling, and no, I’m not “weak” for resigning myself to such.  I’m more in touch with my spirituality than ever before, and am also a much more “protected” empath.

What do I mean by “protected”?

I mean I am learning – or re-learning, rather – how to set healthy boundaries.  This is important to ALL people, yes, but particularly important to empaths.  An empath literally feels and “gives” too much, and without boundaries, you are on the fast track to a breakdown, yourself.

You can still HELP people even when you set a boundary.

You can still FEEL.  An empath would absolutely hate to lose their ability to feel, even though, it is that ability that can be their biggest downfall.

One thing that I had a terrible tendency to do was start manifesting sickness or pain within myself when I started lamenting sickness or pain in others.  A VERY useful (and simple) tool I learned to employ when I would start feeling this way, was to remind myself that I cannot get sick enough to take away the sickness of the world.  I cannot become poor enough to take away poverty from the world.  I cannot feel pain enough to take pain away from the living creatures of this world.  

I tell this to myself almost daily, when I feel those old tendencies coming on, again.  And it works!  But it’s taken a lot of effort to arrive at this point.

If you suspect that you are an empath, one of the best things you can do is learn, or remind yourself how to set healthy boundaries.  Don’t be afraid to say “NO” to people – very often, empaths are “people pleasers.”

Lastly, one of the best things an empath can do for themselves, is to guard their sensitivity.  You are NOT a “crybaby” or a “basket case.”  You are a beautiful, healing soul that has an enlarged capacity to feel!  Don’t let anyone try to make you think that this is a bad thing!  Guard it, protect it, and appreciate it.  You were given this amazing gift.  It’s not enough to to celebrate that gift – you must protect that gift, as well.

Note:  If you have made a habit out of reading my blogs, you may have observed that I openly discuss many of the trials I have gone through in my life.  It is not uncommon for Indigo Children – another topic I regularly post about – to experience many of these issues.  If you are curious about Indigo Children, here is a helpful link.  

Thank you for reading!  

The Path of the Empath ~ Vol. 1

Or subtitled as “Why I can no longer watch MMA fights because that kick in the spleen hurts too much”…

I guess I was always this way, but never really noticed as much, because when you are the way you are, you know no different.

Then, life happened.  Things changed.  But I didn’t seem to notice…

Once in a while, the way a person in a coma will, I stirred. I had those moments of clarity.  I felt like I was awake…but as it was, I was not.  It was sometimes like a nightmare – where you think you’re awake, but NO ONE can hear you if you try to call out.

I remember after IT came back.  I hadn’t had time to notice.  I had recently given birth.  For the second time.  100% natural, no drugs, no nothing.  And yes, even as a pro natural childbirth advocate, I will admit…THAT hurt like HELL.  But as quickly as it ravaged me, it was over.  And I felt fine. I was alright.

Except for one thing…no one told me that this whole breastfeeding thing was going to hurt WORSE.  Worse than the actual childbirth!

Oh, but it did.

And I was ready to throw in the proverbial towel.

So, I sat my sore, sad, nursing BUTT on the couch (no where else I could stand the pain of nursing, other than my bed) and watched TV.  My surfer/MMA fighting hubby liked to watch things like Spike TV, and we watched one hapless dude after another get the crap kicked out of him, and with every kick, punch and wipe out, I cringed.  And flinched.  And literally shed tears of pain.

I could not figure out what the heck was happening…but then I remembered.  I recalled that I’d had moments of clarity before, but quickly put them aside.  I recalled that I had to be physically removed from the theater when “Jesus of Nazareth” was being shown – those spears being driven into His sides…it was more than I could handle.

I had once felt “things.”  I never knew any different.  And now, I was feeling them again.

…and that was just the beginning…or RE-beginning, as it was.

It’s kind of cool, really…if I can keep it in check, I can sit back and feel what is going on around me.  But if I’m having an…shall-I-say, emotional moment , it overtakes me.  I am reduced to a sobbing, wobbly mess.  I WANT to express myself differently, but I just can’t.

I guess, the psychiatric community would have a hay-day with me…

So, after several years, many crazy life experiences involving much blood, sweat and tears, and a whole lot of research, I have learned how to handle the Empath side of things.  I have also learned that my husband AND daughter (and a whole slew of friends and family) are also Empaths.  (I know…the word sounds rather…Star Trek-ish.  I get that.)

But it’s not SciFi.  It’s how I go through life.  And this is just the first in a series of confessionals and peeks into the mind of your ordinary, average (thank you, Joe Walsh!) Empath.

Blessings, Brothers & Sisters.

And now, you know.  ❤